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Delivered Over

When I think about the people I love the most, this is the Bible study I want to write the least. How does honoring God help us love everyone?

Read Romans 1:26-27

Three times, Paul tells us that God has "delivered over" everyone who has exchanged God's glory, God's truth, and God's worship for what is shameful, false, and idolatrous (Romans 1:24, 26, 28). His three examples include all sexual impurity, disgraceful passions, and a corrupt mind. God is a good and wise Creator. He designed us to live under his authority, not to oppress us, but so that we would thrive. In this section, Paul doesn't use the everyday words for men and women, but "males" and "females." It's an intentional choice to reference Genesis 1:27, "he created them male and female." Paul is not anti-sex, but rather, he's reminding us what it is for. In Genesis, God makes us male and female, marries Adam and Eve, and encourages them to multiply. The Creation account honors men and women as image bearers of God; there is no shame about nakedness or sex within the covenant of marriage (Genesis 2:25). In Paul's day, Seneca the Elder passed along a widespread view: "Sexual servicing is a crime for the freeborn, a necessity for a slave, and a duty for the freeman." That is, the powerful could degrade the weak, but were not to be degraded themselves. So it's likely that Paul's brothers and sisters in Christ received his diagnosis with gratitude. They knew first-hand the cost when others were inflamed with lust. So if we lift these verses out of their context to hurt people we look down on, we've missed the point. As Paul says a few verses later, "Therefore, every one of you who judges is without excuse. For when you judge another, you condemn yourself, since you, the judge, do the same things" (Romans 2:1). Both the self-indulgent and the self-righteous fall short of God's standards. One popular view is that sex is limited by consent and good when it is loving. But we know that consent and love are not enough. In an affair, both participants can express love for one another, yet still harm their spouses and children. We can argue that what we do in private isn't anyone else's business, but not see how our lives are always interconnected. Whenever we invent our own sexual ethics, we miss something important. And Jesus declared, "But I tell you, everyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28). By God's standards, I've failed to be sexually pure and failed to avoid judging people whose sin is shaped differently from mine. But the same God who delivers us over to sin also delivered Jesus over to rescue us from it (Romans 8:32).

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What is missing from your culture's understanding of sex?

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What did you learn about sex before you learned about God's design for it?

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Have you ever seen (or experienced) this passage used as a weapon to hurt people?

Ask God, "Where is my sexuality disordered? Where do I need your grace to work in my life so that I might use my body to honor you?"

Source:

Seneca the Elder, Controversiae 4, preface 10 (quoting the orator Quintus Haterius).

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